P.S. to previous post (read that one before this one)

Just a side note to the last post I did.(Read previous post first, if you haven't already).

I had dropped hints at this guy, and he never would respond to wanting more in our relationship. It became a "fight". When we would talk about it, it was always me pressing the issue. I was frustrated by the amount of time that it was taking for the relationship to get going, he was frustrated by the fact that I was always nagging him to tell me more about where our relationship was going. It was a cycle.

Eventually he started spending more time with me and we reached a "plateau" where we no longer seemed just friends, but we hadn't taken any steps towards anything else. Just a natural progression, I guess. But it wasn't from my nagging that was causing us to be closer, it was just how it "happened".......

One unexpected day, months after all the arguing and nagging, he ended up giving me a small kiss. Nothing crazy-romantic like in the movies, but just an indication of his interest in me.

We took it slow, he wanted to take it real slow. Too scary to go too fast; I wish we would have gone even slower. For when passions are awakened, then that's when it gets serious and scary especially when your body wants to naturally move along and all your heart wants to do is honor the God Almighty.

We both wanted that. We both had incredibly "dangerous" desires for one another once we started down that slope of a romantic relationship.....

If my then-boyfriend (now my hubby) would have pushed me for s**ex, I would have put my desires first and done that with him. OH! But thankfully he had his head on straight...... he just wouldn't pass the line, and we ended up dating for two years (after being friends for one) and getting married and then passing that spiritual line.

I can't say much for my spiritual wholeness at that time, but it says a lot about his.

:)

~B